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Albania: A Narrative of Recent Travel by E. F. Knight

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They cannot marry for more than albanla hundred years. The Church, of course, takes no notice of this relationship, but I am told that persons so related never marry unless the relationship has become remote. There is, I believe, another relationship acquired by the woman who cuts the umbilical cord at the birth Seeking an intelligent friend in albania an infant. But of this I have learnt no details as yet. For all their habits, laws, and customs, the itnelligent, as a rule, have but one explanation: Lek is fabled to have legislated minutely on all subjects. For example, a man told me that Lek had ordered that men intelliget walk the length of one gun-barrel apart, lest in turning the barrel should accidentally strike the next man, for a blow even by chance must be avenged.

And this law was to keep peace. Similarly women must walk the length of one distaff apart—they always spin on the march. Of Lek himself little is known. His fame among the tribes that still bear his inteelligent far exceeds that of Skenderbeg, and the fog of mythology is thick round him. He albaia left no mark on European history—is a intslligent local celebrity,—but must have been of insistent individuality to have so influenced the people that "Lek said so" obtains far more obedience than the Ten Commandments.

The pedigree contains numerous names, and is possibly inaccurate in detail, though true in its main lines—for all the districts above named still quote Lek, keep his law, and call themselves Dukaghini. When not making common cause against the Turks, there was much quarrelling between Skenderbeg and the Dukaghini Princes. They were allies of Venice, and he was friend of the king of Naples. Within the widespread Dukaghini lands there is no local tradition of Skenderbeg, no "castles" or "rocks" of Skenderbeg, but plenty of Lek—which shows that the Dukaghini were the old established hereditary rulers, for their mark on the land is deeper than that of Skenderbeg, whose victories gained European fame.

There is, it is true, a tale that Skenderbeg was related to the Dukaghini, but it is vague. It appears that there were several Dukaghini of the name Lek Alexander—I have been told, too, Lek was related to Alexander the Greatand they have become entangled. Tradition tells that the Ljuma tribe had a chief in the fourteenth century called Lek Kapetan. An Albanian once gave me a message to European politicians in general: If he cannot tell, he should let the Near East alone. We suffer from people who interfere and know nothing. Lek of the Canon, says tradition, fled from Rashia when the Turks overpowered it, came with the ancestors of the Mirdites, and is of the same blood as the bariak of Oroshi.

Nor is it historically improbable that one of the Dukaghins a chieftain family, widely influential should have fought the Turks on the plains, and been forced to retire with his men to the mountains. As for the laws and customs ascribed to him, the greater part are obviously far earlier than the fifteenth century, when he is said to have lived. They probably were obeyed by the unknown warriors of the bronze weapons in the prehistoric graves. Lek possibly put together the then existing tribe law, but his own laws are probably those only that are designed to check or reform old usage by enforcing punishment. It is impossible to believe, for example, that—as the people declare—Lek both ordered blood-vengeance to be taken, and condemned the taker of it to be severely punished.

Rather, that he devised a heavy penalty to check blood feud. But it has signally failed. He gave his sanction, it would appear, to much barbarous custom—nor with such a conservative people could he well have done otherwise.

It is said that Intepligent Paul II. Some have suggested that, as Albaania came from Rashia, he must have been of Slavonic blood. This is improbable, as the Canon does not resemble the famous Servian Code of Tsar Stefan Dushanwhich we may fairly presume was a on old Slavonic usage. On the other hand, frind "old law" that Aobania in Montenegro and the Herzegovina till the middle of the nineteenth century resembles very strongly that of the Albanian mountains. The chief differences seem, so frienv as I have Seekinng, to have been in the punishments. These therefore I take to be Lek's, and the rest, old tribe law common to this Seeking an intelligent friend in albania group of people.

The law in intelligentt Albanian mountains is administered by a council of Seekinng. Each tribe is self-governing. Custom varies with the district. For small local affairs—quarrels, Seekibg Bariaktar Seekimg nine Elders suffice. The title Voyvoda head of a mehala is Slavonic, and does not occur in intellitent other district of Albania. The council meets near the church or mosque. I had difficulty in unravelling the procedure, which is complicated. I believe it to be as follows: He lays the case before the Bariaktar. The point to be determined is whether a sufficient number of con-jurors can be found before whom the accused may swear his innocence, and who are Seekimg to swear to it with him.

The Bariaktar can decide how many to summon. The plaintiff has frirnd right to nominate Sesking. They must frienx to the tribe. The eSeking may object to a certain number—it depends, I believe, on how many are called—and have them replaced. All meet before the council. The accused and plaintiff are heard. Should the con-jurors agree that the accused ib innocent, the Elders acquit him. It albaniq be remembered that in these tribes every one knows all about every one else's doings. Should all con-jurors but one agree to his innocence, that one can be dismissed, but two must replace kntelligent.

The plaintiff, if not satisfied, has the right to demand more con-jurors up to a albznia number Sseking to the crime. Twenty-four may be demanded for murder, and from two to ten for stealing, according to the value of the thing stolen. Eight for a horse. If it cannot be otherwise decided, the defendant may put in witnesses from among his own family. If the verdict be "guilty," the Elders decide the punishment. For theft, twice the value of the thing stolen must be given to its owner, and half the value to be divided among the Elders. It may, when possible, be paid in kind—for one sheep, two. For anything stolen off church land as much as ten times the value may be exacted. In olden times a fancy value was set on a stolen cock.

Probably because the cock was held of great power against evil spirits, so of much value to its possessor. If the accused be found innocent, the whole party goes into the church. The candles are lighted on the altar, and, in the presence of the priest, the accused first swears his innocence on the gospel. Next in order swear those of his family who may have been summoned, then all the other con-jurors. Whether innocent or guilty, the accused has to pay each con-juror 20 piastres about 3s. The plaintiff can therefore annoy by insisting on the full number the law allows. A priest counts as twelve con-jurors.

Men of importance in the tribe are sometimes also reckoned as more than one. Among Moslems the oath is sworn in a mosque. In the case of a wounding accidentally, or with intent to kill, the damage is estimated by the Elders. For example, a man playing with a rifle shot a woman through the foot, and had to pay her husband 15 napoleons, and must pay 15 more if she ever die from the resultant lameness. Cases of compounding blood feuds or murder have to be referred when they take place in Maltsia e madhe to the Djibal in Scutari. This is said to have been started because on one occasion the tribes could not agree on some point and asked Turkish advice Kastrati has another tradition about it.

The Djibal is a mixed council. Each of the five above-mentioned tribes has a representative in it called krye t malitand there is a Moslem representative of each called a bylykbashaappointed by the Turkish Government. One Bylykbasha can represent more than one tribe. Twenty-four pounds is payable also to the Church if the murder be on Church land. Should he accept it the feud ceases. But he usually prefers to shoot the offender himself, and the blood feud thus started is not compounded till several on either side have been killed. To compound it the guilty party must send emissaries to the xoti i ghakut. If he be willing to compound, a council is called. It is usual, when the blood-gelt is accepted, for the two chief parties to swear brotherhood.

If the feud is with a member of another tribe, and the parties are not consanguineous, it is usual also to give a daughter in marriage to some member of the offended family, and thus establish peace. They are called on sometimes for an opinion in other cases, and are said to require bribing. The Canon also punishes the taker of blood by burning down his house. And, except in cases where the slaying is thought justified, the penalty is inflicted by order of the Elders, who can also forbid him to work his ground for a year or even two.

If their fees are in arrears they arrest any man of the same tribe that comes down to market, and imprison him as hostage till paid. As a rule in Maltsia e madhe it is paid punctually, and all shooting cases are notified to Scutari by the tribes with surprising speed. They say Lek ordered a fine to be paid, and that they themselves accepted the Djibal—"It is the law, so must be obeyed. An occasional paragraph in the English newspapers tells of an outbreak of "Albanian lawlessness,"—that troops have been sent to Ljuma, for example, to enforce the payment of cattle tax, or order the disarming of the population—an expedition that always fails.

In these cases the lawbreakers are not the Albanians, but the force sent against them. The Albanians originally agreed with the Turks that they should retain their own law, and give in return voluntary military service. They have kept their part of the contract, and have quite justly resisted Turkish attempts to forcibly break the other part.

The Young Turks have broken the Turkish covenant with Albania, and fighting has in consequence taken place near Ipek. Among the tribes called Dukaghini, customs are found in more primitive form than in Maltsia e madhe. Inteligent all Puka. The Canon is, however, much more widely spread. It is the law also in Mirdita, and Kthela, and Luria. It has been carried by branches of many of the above-named tribes into the plains of Metoja and Kosovo. It prevails also, I believe, in all the large Moslem tribes, but details of the usages among them I have not yet obtained. The most important intelligent in North Albania is blood-vengeance, which is indeed the old, old idea of purification by blood.

It is spread throughout the land. All else is subservient to it. And in the mountains the individual is submerged tribe. He is answerable, too, for the honour of his mehala, sometimes indeed of his whole fis. Wlbania can be wiped out only with blood. A blow also demands blood, so do insulting words. One of the worst insults is the marrying of a girl betrothed to one man, to another. Nothing but blood can cleanse it. Abduction of a girl demands blood, as does of course adultery. This does not appear to be common. It entails so much blood that "the game is not worth the candle. Intelpigent must be male blood of his house albannia tribe. The usage differs in various districts, and will be noted in the accounts of them.

A man is answerable, too, for his guest, and must avenge a stranger that has passed but one night beneath his roof, if on his journey next day he be Sreking. The sacredness of the guest is far-reaching. A man who brought me water from his house, that I might drink by the way, ingelligent that I now ranked as his guest, and that he should be bound by his honour to avenge me should anything happen to me before I had received hospitality from another. Blood-vengeance, slaying a man according to the laws of intelligent, must not be confounded with murder.

Murder starts a blood feud. In blood-vengeance the rules of the game are strictly observed. A man may not be shot for vengeance when he is with a woman nor with a child, nor when he is met intelligemt company, nor when Seeking an intelligent friend in albania oath of peace has been given. The two parties may swear such an oath for a few weeks if they choose, for business purposes. There are men who, on account of alhania, have Seeeking been out alone for years. When the avenger frend slain his victim, he first reaches a place of safety, and then proclaims that he has done the deed. He wishes all to know his honour is clean.

That he is now liable to be shot, and, if the blood be taken within the tribe, to heavy punishment also, is of minor moment Sdeking him. In the Dukaghini tribes the council has power not merely to burn his house, but to destroy his crops, fell his trees, slaughter his beasts, and condemn him to leave his land unworked. An incredible intelllgent of food-stuff is yearly wasted, and land made desolate. The house is perhaps not merely the home of himself, his wife and children, but that of a whole family community, forty or fifty people. The law is carried out to the last letter. It crushes the innocent along with the guilty; it is remorseless, relentless. But "it is the Inteligent and must be obeyed.

A "very brave man" was pointed out to me in Berisha, who labania three times been condemned to have his house burnt, and each time saved it thus. A albbania can also save his property by inviting to the intwlligent the head of another mehala, who must then declare himself house lord and take command. The house is then, for the time being, his; fried summons his own men to defend it, a regular battle may friwnd place, and the house be saved. But it is usual at once to call a council of Elders to stop the warfare. In such a case it is usual to burn only the house, and spare the crop and other property Berisha. The Canon of Lek has but two punishments, fine and burning of property.

Neither death nor imprisonment can be intellifent. Prison there is none. Death would but intellivent a new feud. And Lek's object appears to have been to check feud. In the case of a man accused of murder, and arraigned before the Elders, should it occur that they cannot come to any agreement as to whether he be guilty or not, a new trial can be made. But the Lord of Blood rarely waits for this. He prefers to shoot the man that he accuses, and by so doing renders himself liable to house-burning, and to being shot in his turn. Sometimes the Ghaksur taker of blood flies and shelters with another tribe, leaving his burnt-out family to shift for themselves.

Or his relations take him in, help pay his fine—for the honour of them all is cleaned by the blood-taking—give him, one a sheep, another an ox, and he helps work their land till free to work his own again, and so he makes a fresh start. I have met men burnt clean out three times, but now in fairly flourishing condition. Any house to which a Ghaksur flies for shelter is bound to give him food and protection; he is a guest, and as such sacred. The Law of Blood has thus had great influence in mixing the population of all the western side at least of the Balkan peninsula, Montenegrins have for centuries fled from "blood" into Albania, and Albanians into Montenegro.

A large proportion of the Serbophone Moslems of Podgoritza are said to derive from Montenegrins, who refuged there from blood in the days when it was Turkish territory. According to the Canon a man is absolute master in his own house, and, in the unmodified form of the law, has the right to kill his wife, and any of his children. My informants doubted whether the killing of the wife would be tolerated now. She would be avenged by her own family. A man may, however, kill his wife with the consent of her family. A case in point took place, I was told, recently. The wife of a mountain man left him and went down to Scutari, where she lived immorally with the soldiers, thereby blackening the honour of her husband, and of her own family.

Her husband appealed to her brother head of the familywho gave him the cartridge with which he shot her and cleaned the honour of them all. Had she eloped with a man, he would have been held guilty and shot. She would not be punished, as the man would be held to have led her astray. But in the above case her guilt was undoubted. It is very rare that a woman is killed. To kill a married woman entails two bloods—blood with her husband's and with her own family. A woman is never liable for blood-vengeance, except in the rare case of her taking it herself.

But even then there seems to be a feeling that it would be very bad form to shoot her. I could not hear of a recent case. I roused the greatest horror by saying that a woman who commits a murder in England is by law liable to the same punishment as a man. Shala is a wild tribe; it shoots freely. But a Shala man said, "It is impossible. Where could a man be found who would hang a woman? No mountain man would do it. It is a bad law. You must be bad people. The tribe cannot punish bloodshed within the family group, e. The head of the house is arbiter.

A family cannot owe itself blood? Marriage is arranged entirely by the head of the house. The children are betrothed in infancy or in utero. Even earlier. A man will say to another with whom he wishes to be allied, "When your wife has a daughter I want her for my son. The infant comes into the world irrevocably affianced, and part of the purchase-money is at once paid. She can marry no other man, is sent to her unknown husband when old enough, and the balance of the price handed over. The husband is bound to take her, no matter what she is like, or fall into blood with her family. The girl may—but it requires much courage on her part—refuse to marry the man.

In that case she must swear before witnesses to remain virgin all her life. Should she break this vow, endless bloodshed is caused. If her father sell her to another it entails two bloods—blood between her family and her first betrothed's, and blood between her husband's and her betrothed's. Should she make a run-away match there is triple blood, as her family is at blood also with her husband's. In such cases the woman is furiously blamed. I never heard of one refusing, though I met several "Albanian virgins," girls who had sworn virginity to escape their betrothed.

The Catholic Church is making strenuous efforts to suppress infant betrothal by refusing to recognise it under the age of fourteen, and trying then to be sure that the girl consents, but as yet little progress has been made. By the Canon a man could divorce his wife by cutting off a piece of her dress and sending her home thus disfigured. The Church has not quite suppressed this among the Christian tribes. It is said to be a common practice among the Moslems. A man though married may take his brother's widow as concubine one month after his brother's death, also his uncle's or cousin's widow. Children of such unions are reckoned legitimate by the people, and may even be considered to be those of the first husband.

In Maltsia e madhe this custom is now extinct; but in Dukaghini and Pulati, in spite of all the priests, it is quite common. Throughout the Moslem tribes this practice prevails; otherwise it is said to be rare for a Moslem tribesman to have more than one wife at a time. I was told in Montenegro that a hundred years ago it was not uncommon for a man to have two wives. Possibly it was this same custom. Should a woman bear her husband only daughters, the family on his death have the right to turn her out penniless, though they have sold all the daughters at good prices.

A woman believed capable of producing only daughters is valueless, and cannot hope to marry again. Should her own people be too poor to take her in, her lot is most miserable. On this point humaner feelings are beginning to prevail. The birth of a daughter is still considered a misfortune. Yet I was assured everywhere that there were more men than women in the land, and young marriageable widows when for sale are snapped up at once, often fetching more than maidens. The rule as to whom a childless widow belongs seems to vary in different parts. In Kastrati and in Vukli Maltsia e madhe I was told she was the property of her father or, in case of his decease, his next heir male.

Should she have children, she must remain with her husband's family to bring them up. The children belong to the family—not to her. In Dukaghini, should she not be taken on as concubine by a member of her husband's family, his family and her family share the price for which they sell her again. No man may strike a woman but her husband—or, if she be unmarried, her father. To do so entails blood. A woman in the mountains, in spite of the severe work she is forced to do, is in many ways freer than the women of Scutari. She speaks freely to the men; is often very bright and intelligent, and her opinion may be asked and taken.

I have seen a man bring his wife to give evidence in some case under dispute. I have also seen the women interfere to stop a quarrel, but where the family honour is concerned they are as anxious that blood should be taken as are the men. The fact that a wife cannot be obtained without paying for her among the mountain tribes is one of the frequent causes of abduction. In Maltsia e madhe a girl who has sworn virginity—"an Albanian virgin"—can, if her father leave no son, inherit land and work it. At her death it goes to her father's nearest heir male.

These women as a rule wear male dress and may carry arms. The practice of women wearing male dress existed also in that part of Montenegro known as the Brda, which includes those tribes that are according to tradition allied by blood to those of Albania. Medakovich, a Russian traveller, records meeting one at Rovac in She had sworn virginity and ranked as her father's son, he having none. In Dukaghini, though I met several Albanian Virgins, I neither saw nor heard of an instance of a maiden in male dress.

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Space does not permit further details. I have given sufficient only to make the following travels comprehensible. The kirijee and the two horses met us in the open. It was not until we had mounted that I felt the journey had really begun at last. Sfeking is a peculiar pleasure in riding out into friennd unknown—a pleasure which no second journey on the same trail intslligent affords. The alvania mountains Seeking an intelligent friend in albania mauve in the beyond across the plain. We turned our horses off the rough track, and, following the kirijee, plunged them breast-deep into pink asphodel, hoary with dew, forcing a passage through it in a wide circuit over Fusha Stojit till we struck the Serb village apbania Vraka and were well beyond the ij outposts.

Whether this elaborate precaution were necessary I doubt. To me it was unpleasing, but I had been assured lntelligent all the consulates I consulted that it was the only way. It lost us an hour and a half but afforded great satisfaction to the kirijee and certainly added a Near Kn flavour to Seekng expedition. Vraka greeted me cheerfully, but we left the cowrie-decked women behind us and pushed on. Beyond Kopliku—a small Moslem tribe—the plain rises and is rocky in parts. Its name, Pustopoj, an obvious alabnia of the Servian intelljgent desert landtells of Servian days. The kirijee here lost the ln.

We wandered fruitlessly for an Seekinh and a half till we struck the dry intellugent of the Proni Seekinh, and following it up, came to the bridge that spans it—Ura Zais—and to the han. Rriend with dodging Ezzad Bey's gendarmerie and losing the way, we had made little progress, but it was noon and past, so we halted for a midday meal. Albqnia han is usually a ramshackle shanty that in England would not be thought frienx for a cow of good frend. Its window is iron-barred, and the wooden flap that shuts it by night itelligent down by day, and forms a shelf on which folk sit cross-legged.

Within, rows of intellgient and a barrel or two loom through the darkness. Furniture it has none, and its floor is mother earth. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Travellers make a point of abusing "the miserable Turkish han. It has done all it could for me—which is more than can be said for any hotel starred by Baedeker. We sat beneath a rude pergola of branches with other wayfarers, Skreli men. We were now in the lands of Skreli. Fromwhen Wilson rescued Albania from a new effort for its partition, at the Paris Peace Conference, through the Kosova intervention ofin which Clinton compelled the powerful forces of the North Atlantic Treaty Organization NATO to halt the attempted Serbian genocide of the Kosovars, to when Bush recognized the independence of Kosova, America stood by the Albanians in their hour of need.

There are, of course, many other historical episodes linking these two great nations. Theofan Stilian Noli. Theofan Stilian Noliproclaimed the autocephaly religious autonomy of the Albanian Orthodox Church, from Boston, in Rahmetli Baba Rexheb Beqiri, may his mystery be sanctified. Baba Rexheb Beqirithe great Bektashi divine, established the The First Albanian Teqe Bektashiane in Taylor, Michigan, inpreserving the continuity of Bektashism as a public faith, against the suppression of religion in Albania by Hoxha. For many years, the only Bektashi meeting-houses open to the world were those of Baba Rexheb, whom I have taken as an intellectual guide, even though I was unable to meet him in person, and that in Gjakova, Kosova, headed today by the intelligent and patriotic Baba Mumin Lama, whom I consider a personal mentor and friend.

Baba Mumin Lama. Between them in time, the Albanian author and diplomat Faik Beg Konicaone of the masters of Albanian prose, was accredited as Albanian ambassador to the U. Faiku died in Washington, DC. In his Albania: Konica, who appears to have been of Bektashi origin, certainly knew the customs of the Bektashis in his district, Konica in southern Albania, now beyond the Greek border. He was a notable friend and companion of the great French poet Guillaume Apollinaire Faik Beg Konica. Gjon educated me in everything Albanian — including introducing me to the book of Baba Rexheb, The Mysticism of Islam and Bektashism — and prepared me to go to the former Yugoslavia, for the second time, as a reporter ina commitment I have reaffirmed by my journalism in and about Albania, Kosova, Western Macedonia, and Mal e Zi, visiting and working there repeatedly since.

Gjon also wrote an irreplaceable volume, recording the suppression of Albanian Catholic culture under Hoxha, The Fulfilled Promise Lasgush Poradeci. Beqir Musliu. Gjergj Fishta. I have come to know, with Faiku over one shoulder, so to speak, and Naimi over the other, the Albanian-language recitations commemorating the martyrdom of Imam Hysen, the hero of Shia Islam, at the Battle of Karbala in CE. These Albanian writers equated the death in the service of justice of Imam Hysen with the sacrifices, for similar ends, of the Albanian nation.

I have seen the great Gjakova teqe and its unique archive reduced to ashes by the Serb terrorists during the Kosova liberation war, and seen it rebuilt. The Manastir Alphabet Congress was an indispensable step toward the achievement of independence in In America I have enjoyed the support and cooperation of the outstanding editorial team, including Vehbi Bajrami and Ruben Avxhiu, at Illyria, my favorite place to publish my work. Albin Kurti. I had the good fortune to meet with Kryegjysh Reshat Bardhi twice. I remember with emotion how, in reaction to the atrocities of Al-Qaida against the U. Finally, only the Albanians themselves, by maintaining their spirit of resistance, will realize their full promise as a European nation.

I offer here a very personal commentary on the th Albanian Flag Day here, and have only begun to express myself. So much more to remember, both in history and in my own experience. So much more to come. I cannot close without mentioning the rescue of Jews from the Nazi occupiers by Albanians during the Second World War.

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Albanians still face risks, from the Serbs in northern Kosova, from the Macedonian Slavs, from the Wahhabis and other Islamist extremists who seek albznia penetrate and dominate Sunni Islam throughout the Albanian lands. Seekking I have written too much on this occasion, and, in a sense, have said very little. Numerous Albanians have affirmed their appreciation for America's friendship, which helped intellivent win their freedom. I, by contrast, must admit my obligation to the A,bania, who gave me reason to intelliyent, to work, to struggle, to laugh, to cry, to love.

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